If there is a barrier - find a way around it
In my career I have had moments when it has been as clear as day that a barrier has been erected and a wall is firmly in place. But you see when I was growing up I was what was called a ‘tomboy’ so I kind of knuckle down, put trousers on and got climbing. Now don't get me wrong. I’m like anyone else when confronted with something. I stop or stumbled. Yes I will admit I've cried with frustration (just not doing it in front of you if I can help it!), I have stared in disbelief with my mouth open (catching flies), I have had that puzzled look on my face like that character played by Gary Coleman in the American TV sitcom Diff'rent Strokes. His catchphrase was "whatchu Talkin bout Willis? His expression was priceless. I have seethed inwardly and when in my car screamed out loud cussing invisible people. I have even turned the music up too loudly so that no one can hear me screaming profanities at the top of my lungs. Yep I w...